Announcing the Attachment Mix Tape! Track #1: "The Glory of Love"

June 30, 2015

 

 

I just watched the movie Beaches starring Bette Midler and Barbara Hershey for the first time in a decade!  If you’ve never seen it, its probably one of the sweetest and most sad films made about long-term friendship ever made, but so poignant and a beautiful example of love and commitment and adult attachment.  After watching the film again, I became a little obsessed with one of the songs in the film performed by Bette Midler at the end called “The Glory of Love”. My therapist friends and I are always joking about our hypothetical mix tape of “Attachment” songs, and I decided to make one and this is the first song!  It contains all the elements of human attachment relationships – closeness coupled with pain, connection coupled with disconnection, rupture coupled with repair, exploring the world together but also being each other’s safe haven to return to for comfort.

 

Here are the lyrics:

 

The Glory of Love

 

You’ve got to give a little, take a little
And let your poor heart break a little
That’s the story of,
That’s the glory of love

 

You’ve got to laugh a little, cry a little
Until the clouds roll by a little
That’s the story of,
That’s the glory of love

 

As long as there’s the two of us
We’ve got the world and all its charms
And when the world is through with us
We’ve got each other’s arms

 

You’ve got to win a little, lose a little
Yes, and always have the blues a little
That’s the story of,
That’s the glory of love

That’s the story of,
That’s the glory of love

 

The song has been recorded by many, many people since it was first recorded in 1936.  I’ve copied a few of my favorites below!

 

First, we have Bette Midler’s version – its kind of sappy, but the most emotionally poignant.  You may want to call your best friend or your parents after listening to this version!    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZkzM2krUixs

 

Next, we have Jimmy Durante performing the song with a little monologue about love; very cute and will lift your spirits!  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0eqGTJoRiLI

 

Last, but not least, my favorite version!  Big Bill Broonzy takes the sappiness out of the song and makes it hummable!  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XHH-jmj7DJQ

 

If you haven’t seen Beaches, you can stream it via Instant video on Amazon or purchase it here:  http://www.amazon.com/Beaches-Special-Bette-Midler/dp/B000765IJK/ref=sr_1_2?ie=UTF8&qid=1435676129&sr=8-2&keywords=beaches

 

Thanks for reading!